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Karen Carr  & Yvette Christofilis

Born in Queens, raised on Long Island, schooled in the Bronx, summered in Saratoga, working in Manhattan and living in White Plains with my partner of 30 years.

A reading from the decision of disrespect…

“We therefore express our hope that the participants in the controversy over same-sex marriage will address their arguments to the Legislature; that the Legislature will listen and decide as wisely as it can; and that those unhappy with the result---as many undoubtedly will be—will respect it as people in a democratic state should respect choices democratically made.”

My friends- discrimination in any form- and in this instance, codified discrimination- be it a court decision, legislative action, or federal constitution amendment- never deserves respect.


Karen Carr (r) with her partner Yvette Christofilis (l)

WE as New Yorkers who see the value of all its citizens and respect differences will not tolerate anything less than full equality.

Today’s decision puts us all at risk.

Today we have seen discrimination under the guise of sexual preferences- Note- NOT orientation- as if this is all a choice.  Plus the other standard excuse- the guise of the protection of children.

It is a bold face lie. It is discrimination.

This decision deserves no respect for it disrespects citizens of the Great State of New York.

It codifies second class love, second class relationships and second class citizens of this state.

So today we must re- “gird up our loins” to take a line from “The Devil Wears Prada”.

Gird up our loins to protect our relationships and our families.

To paraphrase another proud New Yorker, the late great LGBT leader Harvey Milk, from Hewlett, Long Island, New York, we must join “the fight to preserve our democracy from the John Briggs and the Anita Bryants” (or as I say, fill in the name of the discriminator of your choice) “who are trying to constitutionalize bigotry.  We are not going to allow that to happen”.

So my sisters and brothers, take care of yourselves and each other.  The battle will be long and hard. But remember, we will be victorious.

And Respect will win and reign in the State of New York.

Thank you.
Karen Carr

Quote from Harvey Milk’s “That’s What America Is” speech.
Gay Freedom Day Parade of June 25, 1978

 

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