LOFT Calendar
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Friday, April 12, 2024 at 12:00 PM
VIRTUAL(V): Lunch with The LOFT
This is an open group to chat about whatever is on your mind. Grab a sandwich or a cup of coffee and connect with The LOFT staff and other community members virtually over lunch.
When: Every Friday from 12:00 PM - 12:45 PM
WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link
CONTACT: Call The LOFT's Helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 if you have any questions about the group!
LOFT Social Groups are open groups that welcome everyone ages 18 and over. Groups are led by members of the LGBTQ+ and allied communities.
Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.
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Friday, April 12, 2024 at 07:30 PM
VIRTUAL(V): Lesbian Social Network (LSN)
The Lesbian Social Network (LSN) is an open-topic group run by a trained peer facilitator for women. Ages 18 and older, who identify as lesbian, bisexual, queer, or are questioning their sexuality.
WHEN: Every Friday evening from 7:30 PM - 9:00 PM
WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link
CONTACT: Email [email protected] or call The LOFT's Helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 if you have any questions about the group!
LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic, drop-in groups. Groups are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.
View all groups on our calendar!
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Saturday, April 13, 2024 at 10:00 AM
VIRTUAL(V): Queer Community Book Club
Using books written by people who identify themselves within queer communities, Queer Community Book Club (QCBC) aims to deepen our sense of community and ourselves in a queer-centric space. QCBC is a free program that is cosponsored by Queery and The LOFT LGBTQ+ Community Center.
WHEN: Every Saturday from 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM
WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link
CONTACT: For questions, contact The LOFT at [email protected]
To get updates on QCBC follow us on IG @queercommunitybookclub
To learn more about Queery click here.
LOFT Social Groups are open groups that welcome everyone ages 18 and over. Groups are led by members of the LGBTQ+ and allied communities.
Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.
View all groups on our calendar!
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Saturday, April 13, 2024 at 11:30 AM
VIRTUAL(V): Aces Westchester
Aces Westchester, an Asexual Discussion and Activity Group, is an open-topic group run by a trained facilitator. The group is open to all who identify as Asexual, Aromantic , or Aspec.
WHEN: The 2nd Saturday of the month from 11:30 AM - 12:30 PM
WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link
CONTACT: [email protected] or call The LOFT's helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 with any questions!
LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic, drop-in groups. Groups are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.
View all groups on our calendar!
Asexual Definition:
An asexual is: “someone who does not experience sexual attraction.” Asexuality.org also notes, "Asexuals may regard other people as aesthetically attractive without feeling sexual attraction to them. Some asexual people also experience the desire of being affectionate to other people without it being sexual."
"Asexuality is not the same as celibacy. While celibacy is a choice to abstain from sexual activity, asexuality is a sexual orientation, or an intrinsic part of an asexual person’s identity"
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Asexual Resources:
- Asexual Awareness Week
- "Asexuality 101" (YouTube video)
- Asexuality 101 pdf
- Asexual Groups – World List
- Intro to Asexuality
- "A comic that debunks myths about asexuality"
- Five Signs You Are Asexual
- Five Signs You Might Be Asexual
- What Is Asexuality?
- "The Amazing Aces: A Talk on Asexuality | Danika Vrtar"
- The Invisible Orientation
- Asexuality: A Brief Introduction PDF (Asexuality Archive)
- Discussing TV & Film Representation
- Asexuality and Sex
- Larger ace resource list
- "10 Things You Should Never Tell An Asexual"
Grey-Ace Definition:
Grey Ace (also called greysexual or grey asexuality) is feeling little to no sexual attraction. This includes a desire not strong enough to act upon, felting desire that doesn't last, infrequent sexual desire, a very low sex drive, and "people who can enjoy and desire sex... but under very limited and specific circumstances" (GLAAD).
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Grey-Ace Resources:
- Common grey-ace questions
- FAQs
- More FAQs
- defintion and history
- "5 Signs That You Might Be Greysexual"
Allosexual Definition:
An allosexual (sometimes shortened to allo) person is someone who "experiences sexual attraction, regardless of sexuality" (Warwick Pride). This is the opposite of being ace.
Aromantic Definition:
"Aromanticism is a romantic orientation, which describes people whose experience of romance is disconnected from normative societal expectations, often due to experiencing little to no romantic attraction, or sometimes feeling repulsed by romance or being uninterested in romantic relationships" (arospecweek).
Remember that not every aromantic person is also ace. Meaning it's possible to be aro and allosexual or be aro and be in sexual relationships. You can be on the aspec spectrum while being allo.
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Aromantic Resources:
Grey-Romantic Definition:
"...A romantic orientation on the aromantic spectrum which describes those who relate with aromanticism, yet feel that there are parts of their experience that aren't fully described by the word aromantic. Greyromantic can be used as a specific identity, or as an umbrella term for any aro-spec identity that isn't purely aromantic, including demiromantic and others" (Aromantics Wiki).
"A common reason someone may identify as greyromantic is that they experience romantic attraction but very infrequently. Some greyromantic individuals may only feel romantic attraction once or twice in their life. Others may experience it more frequently, but still not as frequently or intensely as alloromantic individuals" (Aromantics Wiki).
Aromantic Asexual or AroAce Definition:
A person who is both aromantic and asexual or somewhere on both spectrums.
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AroAce Resources:
Cupiosexual Definition:
"Cupiosexual is defined as someone who does not experience sexual attraction but still desires/likes a sexual relationship. Cupiosexuals are commonly sex-favorable but they do not have to be. Cupiosexual may also beused by individuals who sometimes feel sexual attraction but desire a sexual relationship even without attraction" (Asexuals Wiki).
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Cupiosexual Resources:
Cupioromantic Defintion:
"Cupioromantic is the feeling of wanting a romantic relationship but not being able to have romantic attraction towards others" (Aromantics Wiki).
Demisexual Definition:
"Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond. Most demisexuals feel sexual attraction rarely compared to the general population, and some have little to no interest in sexual activity" (Demisexuality Resource Center).
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Demisexual Resources:
- "Here Are 7 Signs You Might Be Demisexual"
- FAQs
- "Coming Out As Demisexual"
- info for partners of demisexual people
- "Am I Demisexual If…"
Queer Platonic Definition:
"Queerplatonic relationships [are] a close non-sexual, non-romantic relationship that is beyond what most would consider to be a friendship. It consists of emotional commitment and prioritization that is typically seen in a romantic relationship. People in queerplatonic relationships may be of any gender or sexual identity" (LGBTQIA+ Wiki). This term is often used in the aspec community.
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Queer Platonic Resources:
Aspec or a-spec defintion:
Aspec is "an umbrella term for anyone who identifies on the asexual and/or aromantic spectrum" (Warwick Pride).
Stories from Aspec people:
- "Sriti Jha Narrates What Being An Asexual Is Like"
- "8 Reasons Why I Love Being Aromantic"
- "As an asexual woman, finding my place in the queer community wasn't as simple as it sounds"
- "Asexual people speak out | DW Documentary"
- "What You Love About Being Ace"
- "Things Asexual People REALLY Wish You Knew"
- "Signs You Might Be Aro | Our Aro Experiences"
- "7 things people on the ace spectrum need you to know"
- 5 Asexual People Explain What "Asexual" Means To Them
- I Am Ace: Advice on Living Your Best Asexual Life
Aspec Resources:
- definitions and FAQs
- definitions, support, facts, and more!
- FAQs
- More FAQs answered
- Even more FAQs
- 14 Asexual Spectrum Identities | Different Ways to Be Ace
- Asexual Outreach
- Aces & Aros.org
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Saturday, April 13, 2024 at 12:00 PM
Ron Blacks Beer Hall in White Plains, NYSpringfest
You are cordially invited to join us for a joyous occasion, as we celebrate the dedicated volunteers who have selflessly contributed to The LOFT over the past year. SpringFest is a special event designed to honor and show our appreciation for the individuals who have played a vital role in supporting The LOFT's programs, day-to-day tasks, objectives, Westchester Pride, and other annual events. Together, let's celebrate the spirit of community and the invaluable contributions of our volunteers. Join us for a brunch event filled with joy, appreciation, and camaraderie as we come together to recognize the selfless dedication of these extraordinary individuals.
Your presence will truly make this celebration memorable. We look forward to seeing you at SpringFest!
DATE: Saturday, April 13, 2024
TIME: 12:00 PM - 2:30 PM
DETAILS: A celebratory brunch with drag star, Gigi Cutina!
LOCATION: Ron Blacks: 181 Mamaroneck Ave, White Plains, NY
ADMISSION: $40
QUESTIONS: Please email Stevie McMahon at [email protected] with the subject line "Springfest 2024 RSVP" or call (914) 948-2932 ext. 14
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Saturday, April 13, 2024 at 04:00 PM
VIRTUAL(V): Transgender Peer Support Group
The Transgender Peer Support Group is an open-topic group run by a trained facilitator for individuals who identify as transgender, gender variant, gender queer, or intersex (18 and older). Partners of transgender group participants are also welcome.
WHEN: The 1st & 3rd Sundays of the month from 4:00 PM - 5:30 PM
The 2nd & 4th Saturdays of the month from 5:30 PM - 7:00 PMWHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link
CONTACT: Call The LOFT's Helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 if you have any questions about the group!
LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic drop-in groups. They are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
There is no fee to attend discussion groups but a $5 donation is suggested, more if you can, less if you can’t. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of the participants.
View all groups on our calendar!
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Saturday, April 13, 2024 at 06:00 PM
VIRTUAL(V): Alcoholics Anonymous (AA)
Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is an open and supportive group of people seeking to handle and recover from their problematic drinking.
WHEN: AA meets weekly on Saturday evenings from 6:00 PM - 7:00 PM
WHERE: Virtual meeting - please find Zoom link below
CONTACT: For questions, contact The LOFT: [email protected]
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Sunday, April 14, 2024 at 02:30 PM
VIRTUAL(V): 55+ Peer Support Group
The 55+ Peer Support Group is an open-topic, peer-led, support group created to address the specific needs, challenges, and lives of people 55+. This is a program of Silver Connections, The LOFT's program for LGBTQ+ community members ages 55+.
WHEN: The 2nd and last Sundays of the month from 2:30 PM - 4:00 PM
WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link
CONTACT: [email protected] or call The LOFT's helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 with any questions!
LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic, drop-in groups. Groups are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.
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Monday, April 15, 2024 at 06:30 PM
The LOFT LGBTQ+ Community Center in White Plains, NY(IP): The Artists LOFT
The Artists LOFT is a fun night out to let your creativity flow. Come and meet new people and each month experience a different art project and adventure. No artistic experience is necessary, this is a judgement-free zone and materials will be provided. The Artists LOFT is facilitated by The LOFT's Creatives Rebuild New York Artist-In-Residence Sphynxx and will feature a monthly art night at The LOFT. The group will also host a monthly art-related outing. Dates and times for these will vary from month to month.
The Artists LOFT is free to participate in, donations are always welcome. Costs associated with the monthly art outings will be the responsibility of each attendee.
WHEN: The 3rd Monday of the month from 6:30 PM - 8:30 PM
WHERE: The LOFT Community Center
CONTACT: Sphynxx, CRNY Artist in Residence, at [email protected] or (914)-948-2932 extension 18
LOFT Social Groups are open groups that welcome everyone ages 18 and over. Groups are led by members of the LGBTQ+ and allied communities.
Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.
View all groups on our calendar!
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Monday, April 15, 2024 at 07:00 PM
Movement in Valhalla, NYQueer Climb Night
Get ready for an exhilarating night of climbing, training, and kicking it with a fantastic community at Queer Climb Night! This event is tailor-made for LGBTQ+ folx who share a passion for climbing and are looking to connect with others in a fun and supportive environment. Whether you're a seasoned climber or a complete beginner, this is your invitation to join us for an evening of fitness, friendship, and fabulous climbing fun.
WHEN: 1st & 3rd Mondays of the month from 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
WHERE: Movement, 1 Commerce St, Valhalla, NY
ADMISSION: $15 for guests - free for members of Movement!
WHO: 1st Monday: LGBTQ+ community members ages 18+
3rd Monday: LGBTQ+ community members including youths and familiesCONTACT: [email protected] or call (914) 948-2932 x13 with any questions!
Step 1) Complete Movement's required participation agreement (you can RSVP and pay the discounted fee online)
Fill out the participation agreement here!
Step 2) To participate in LOFT programming, you are required to register through The LOFT's registration form.
LOFT Social Groups are open groups that welcome everyone ages 18+ and all ages on select evenings. Groups are led by members of the LGBTQ+ and allied communities.
Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.