Outspoken: The Arc is Becoming a Circle


Contributor Gary O'Brien shares a personal essay about growing up gay in the 70's, 80's, and 90's, reflecting on all the things that have changed and how so many gains are on the verge of being erased.


December 2022 OUTWALKING

Enjoy the crisp Autumn air, good company, and the natural surroundings of Westchester with The LOFT's OUTWalking!

The next outing will be December 4, 2022-SUNDAY at Oscawana Island & McAndrews Estate | 123 Cortlandt, St, Croton-On-Hudson, NY, 10520 | 10:00AM-1:00 PM


LOFT Closed for Thanksgiving & Friday

If you require assistance, please use our Helpline: 914-2932 x13 or email: [email protected]


Get Your Brunch Tickets Now

Holiday Brunch Celebration December 11-SUN | 11:30 AM-2:30 PM | Sonesta Hotel, White Plains NY

Get your tickets now, at the early bird rate!

The LOFT's annual holiday brunch celebration is BACK in person!  Come and celebrate with your community, meet new people, and make new friends!

All-you-can-eat buffet, live entertainment, games, and prizes including an NYC Getaway Package: Hotel & Broadway tickets!

Win your chance for a 2-night stay at the brand new,  MOTTO, a super chic hotel by Hilton, and enjoy ticket vouchers from TodayTix to your choice of Broadway shows (a $650 value)!

Early Bird Tickets are on sale now!  


A Letter From Executive Director, Judy Troilo

In her end-of-year Executive Director letter, Judy Troilo reflects on all of the exciting things that happened in 2022, and talks about our future, looking forward to 2023. 


Statement about Club Q Tragedy


Managing Holiday Stress

We know that not everybody gets excited about the holidays. In fact, for many of us, it can be downright stressful.  The LOFT has on-site, free mental health therapy available on Wednesdays from 1-7 pm.  Come and have a free, private, session with a professional therapist. 

It can be helpful to have someone to talk with and help process whatever is going on, in a supportive, confidential space. 


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This Week at The LOFT

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  • In-Person meetings and events marked in red
  • Hybrid meetings (simultaneously virtual and in-person) and events marked in green
  • Special meetings are marked in purple
  • Virtual meetings and events marked in black

May 15-21, 2023


Office Hours: 10:00 AM-6:00 PM

In-Person: Silver Connections Lunch and Learn
11:30-1:00 PM

LGBTQ+ People of Color Peer Support Group
7:00-8:30 PM


Office Hours: 10:00 AM-6:00 PM

In Person Meeting: Al-Anon (AAC)
6:30-7:30 PM

Bisexual Peer Support Group:
7:30-9:00 PM

Men's Peer Support Group:
7:30-9:00 PM


Office Hours: 10:00 AM-6:00 PM

FREE Mental Health Therapy (In-Person):
is not meeting this week

In-Person: TSHV Workshop Series
4:00-6:00 PM

In-Person: Center Lane TransParentcy
6:30-8:30 PM

T-Time for TGNCNB POC Communities:
6:30-7:30 PM


Office Hours: 10:00 AM-6:00 PM

C.A.L.M. - Centered at LOFT Meditation:
5:30-6:30 PM

Hybrid Meeting: One Voice: LGBTQ+ HIV/AIDS Support Group
6:00-7:00 PM


Office Hours: 10:00 AM-6:00 PM

Lunch with The LOFT:
12:00-12:45 PM

In-Person LGBTQ+ Youth Night!
6:30-8:30 PM

Lesbian Social Network:
7:30-9:00 PM


Office Closed

Queer Community Book Club:  10:00-11:00 AM

Transgender Peer Support Group:
5:30 PM-7:00 PM

Alcoholics Anonymous (AA):
6:00-7:00 PM


Office Closed 

In-person, OUTWalking: Lasdon Park Arboretum
10:00 AM-12:30 PM

55+ Peer Support Group:
2:30-4:30 PM



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