The LOFT's Rebuilding Rainbows program provides advocacy, connection, and support for LGBTQ+ survivors of intimate partner violence (IPV), domestic violence, family violence, sexual assault, and elder abuse.
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What is IPV, domestic violence, family violence, sexual assault & elder abuse? Click here for definitions |
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Is my relationship healthy?
Abuse can happen in any relationship and take many forms including: physical, sexual, emotional/mental, and financial. Sometimes an abusive relationship looks like a partner controlling how often you leave the house, where you go, and who you spend time with. Sometimes abuse in a relationship looks like a partner who invalidates you by telling you that you don't "pass" well enough, or that no one will believe you because of your identity.
Ultimately, an abusive relationship occurs when a partner (family member, caregiver, etc) uses tactics to maintain power and control over a survivor on a consistent basis.

If you answer "yes" to any of these questions, we are here to support you.
Connection to a Rebuilding Rainbows LGBTQ+ Survivor Advocate can include
- Safety planning
- Assessment of goals
- One-on-one resource connection to shelter, legal, employment, and support services
- Accompaniment to appointments, if needed (note: our advocates may accompany for support only, and do not provide legal advice)
- Connection to LGBTQ+-affirming peer support groups and community
- Follow-up connections for re-assessment of goals and services needed
Additional services Rebuilding Rainbows provides
- "Queering the Conversation on Healthy Relationships" social media live series
- Featuring local community partners
- LGBTQ+ Survivor Support Group - launch date TBD
- Community outreach and advocacy
- Intimate Partner Violence in LGBTQ+ Communities Professional Training Series
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If you or someone you know is experiencing violence or abuse from an intimate partner, family member, or caregiver, please reach out to us. You are not alone. The LOFT is a safe-space and together we will connect you with the supportive services you need. Call, email or visit the center to speak with The LOFT's Rebuilding Rainbows Advocate (914) 948-2932 x13 | [email protected] |
Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. To donate, click here or text The LOFT to 44321.

