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LOFT Calendar

  • Friday, May 10, 2024 at 07:30 PM
    VIRTUAL

    (V): Lesbian Social Network (LSN)

    The Lesbian Social Network (LSN) is an open-topic group run by a trained peer facilitator for women. Ages 18 and older, who identify as lesbian, bisexual, queer, or are questioning their sexuality.

    WHEN: Every Friday evening from 7:30 PM - 9:00 PM

    WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

    CONTACT: Email [email protected] or call The LOFT's Helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 if you have any questions about the group!

    LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic, drop-in groups. Groups are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
    Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

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  • Saturday, May 11, 2024 at 10:00 AM
    VIRTUAL

    (V): Queer Community Book Club

    Using books written by people who identify themselves within queer communities, Queer Community Book Club (QCBC) aims to deepen our sense of community and ourselves in a queer-centric space. QCBC is a free program that is cosponsored by Queery and The LOFT LGBTQ+ Community Center.

    WHEN: Every Saturday from 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM

    WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

    CONTACT: For questions, contact The LOFT at [email protected]

    To get updates on QCBC follow us on IG @queercommunitybookclub
    To learn more about Queery click here.

    LOFT Social Groups are open groups that welcome everyone ages 18 and over. Groups are led by members of the LGBTQ+ and allied communities.

    Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

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  • Saturday, May 11, 2024 at 11:30 AM
    VIRTUAL

    (V): Aces Westchester

    Aces Westchester, an Asexual Discussion and Activity Group, is an open-topic group run by a trained facilitator. The group is open to all who identify as Asexual, Aromantic , or Aspec.

    WHEN: The 2nd Saturday of the month from 11:30 AM - 12:30 PM

    WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

    CONTACT: [email protected] or call The LOFT's helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 with any questions!

    LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic, drop-in groups. Groups are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
    Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

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    Asexual Definition:

    An asexual is: “someone who does not experience sexual attraction.” Asexuality.org also notes, "Asexuals may regard other people as aesthetically attractive without feeling sexual attraction to them. Some asexual people also experience the desire of being affectionate to other people without it being sexual."

    "Asexuality is not the same as celibacy. While celibacy is a choice to abstain from sexual activity, asexuality is a sexual orientation, or an intrinsic part of an asexual person’s identity"

    (Human Rights Campaign).

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    Asexual Resources:

    Grey-Ace Definition:

    Grey Ace (also called greysexual or grey asexuality) is feeling little to no sexual attraction. This includes a desire not strong enough to act upon, felting desire that doesn't last, infrequent sexual desire, a very low sex drive, and "people who can enjoy and desire sex... but under very limited and specific circumstances" (GLAAD).

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    Grey-Ace Resources:

    Allosexual Definition:

    An allosexual (sometimes shortened to allo) person is someone who "experiences sexual attraction, regardless of sexuality" (Warwick Pride). This is the opposite of being ace.

    Aromantic Definition:

    "Aromanticism is a romantic orientation, which describes people whose experience of romance is disconnected from normative societal expectations, often due to experiencing little to no romantic attraction, or sometimes feeling repulsed by romance or being uninterested in romantic relationships" (arospecweek). 

    Remember that not every aromantic person is also ace. Meaning it's possible to be aro and allosexual or be aro and be in sexual relationships. You can be on the aspec spectrum while being allo.

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    Aromantic Resources:

     

    Grey-Romantic Definition:

    "...A romantic orientation on the aromantic spectrum which describes those who relate with aromanticism, yet feel that there are parts of their experience that aren't fully described by the word aromantic. Greyromantic can be used as a specific identity, or as an umbrella term for any aro-spec identity that isn't purely aromantic, including demiromantic and others" (Aromantics Wiki).

    "A common reason someone may identify as greyromantic is that they experience romantic attraction but very infrequently. Some greyromantic individuals may only feel romantic attraction once or twice in their life. Others may experience it more frequently, but still not as frequently or intensely as alloromantic individuals" (Aromantics Wiki). 

    Aromantic Asexual or AroAce Definition:

    A person who is both aromantic and asexual or somewhere on both spectrums. 

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    AroAce Resources:

    Cupiosexual Definition:

    "Cupiosexual is defined as someone who does not experience sexual attraction but still desires/likes a sexual relationship. Cupiosexuals are commonly sex-favorable but they do not have to be. Cupiosexual may also beused by individuals who sometimes feel sexual attraction but desire a sexual relationship even without attraction" (Asexuals Wiki).

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    Cupiosexual Resources:

    Cupioromantic Defintion: 

    "Cupioromantic is the feeling of wanting a romantic relationship but not being able to have romantic attraction towards others" (Aromantics Wiki).

    Demisexual Definition:

    "Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond. Most demisexuals feel sexual attraction rarely compared to the general population, and some have little to no interest in sexual activity" (Demisexuality Resource Center).

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    Demisexual Resources:

    Queer Platonic Definition:

    "Queerplatonic relationships [are] a close non-sexual, non-romantic relationship that is beyond what most would consider to be a friendship. It consists of emotional commitment and prioritization that is typically seen in a romantic relationship. People in queerplatonic relationships may be of any gender or sexual identity" (LGBTQIA+ Wiki). This term is often used in the aspec community. 

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    Queer Platonic Resources:

    Aspec or a-spec defintion:

    Aspec is "an umbrella term for anyone who identifies on the asexual and/or aromantic spectrum" (Warwick Pride).

    Stories from Aspec people:

    Aspec Resources:

     

  • Saturday, May 11, 2024 at 05:30 PM
    VIRTUAL

    (V): Transgender Peer Support Group

    The Transgender Peer Support Group is an open-topic group run by a trained facilitator for individuals who identify as transgender, gender variant, gender queer, or intersex (18 and older). Partners of transgender group participants are also welcome.

    WHEN: The 1st & 3rd Sundays of the month from 4:00 PM - 5:30 PM
                 The 2nd & 4th Saturdays of the month from 5:30 PM - 7:00 PM

    WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

    CONTACT: Call The LOFT's Helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 if you have any questions about the group!

    LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic drop-in groups. They are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
    There is no fee to attend discussion groups but a $5 donation is suggested, more if you can, less if you can’t.  Fees related to activities are the responsibility of the participants.

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  • Saturday, May 11, 2024 at 06:00 PM
    VIRTUAL

    (V): Alcoholics Anonymous (AA)

    Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is an open and supportive group of people seeking to handle and recover from their problematic drinking.

    WHEN: AA meets weekly on Saturday evenings from 6:00 PM - 7:00 PM

    WHERE: Virtual meeting - please find Zoom link below

    CONTACT: For questions, contact The LOFT: [email protected]

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  • Sunday, May 12, 2024 at 02:30 PM
    VIRTUAL

    (V): 55+ Peer Support Group

    The 55+ Peer Support Group is an open-topic, peer-led, support group created to address the specific needs, challenges, and lives of people 55+. This is a program of Silver Connections, The LOFT's program for LGBTQ+ community members ages 55+.

    WHEN: The 2nd and last Sundays of the month from 2:30 PM - 4:00 PM

    WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

    CONTACT: [email protected] or call The LOFT's helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 with any questions!

    LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic, drop-in groups. Groups are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
    Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

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  • Monday, May 13, 2024 at 11:30 AM

    (IP) Aging Alone, Together: Take Charge of Your Aging

    This six-week series offered by DOROT at The LOFT is designed for LGBTQ+ individuals to build community as they learn, discuss, and reflect on the logistical and social challenges of aging with independence. You need not live alone or without family to participate in and benefit from this program. All senior participants ages 60+ are encouraged to join. The program is offered at no cost, thanks to the generosity of DOROT foundational funders and individual donors.

    Program Schedule 

    Mondays,

    11:30 AM – 1:00 PM

    May 6

    May 13

    May 20

    June 10

    June 17

    June 24

    Please note: this group will not be meeting on May 27th and June 3rd. 

    Contact DOROT to learn more and register:

    (914) 485-8358

    [email protected]

    You can also contact The LOFT with questions.

    Alicia Wilczewski, the program manager, can be reached at [email protected] or 914-948-2932 ext. 13

     

     

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  • Monday, May 13, 2024 at 06:00 PM
    VIRTUAL

    (V): Queer Planet

    Queer ecology is a set of concepts that acknowledge the connections between ecology and queer thought. Among these concepts are the observations that society believes queerness to be "unnatural" even though many parts of nature are queer and that injustices against nature and injustices against LGBTQ+ people have overlapping causes and solutions.

    Sphynxx, our Creatives Rebuild New York Artist in Residence, will facilitate a virtual discussion with guest speakers who know Sustainability, Environmental Justice, Biotechnology, and trending Policies / Regulations concerning climate change. The group will continue to share information and connect using the messaging app Slack.

    WHEN: The 2nd Monday of the month from 6:00 PM - 7:00 PM

    WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

    CONTACT: [email protected] or call The LOFT's helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 with any questions!

    Click here for slack invite to continue the conversation and share information

    Please be advised any inappropriate messages or images will not be tolerated. You will be blocked from the group and slack channel.

    Use the links below to familiarize yourself with some discussion topics

    Queer Ecology

    October 2022 Global Climate Report

    What the New Climate Bill Means for the U.S.—and the World

    Why Hemp is the Future of Sustainable Farming

    Indoor Farming: The Future of Agriculture

    Fossil fuels and climate change: the facts

    As EV sales accelerate, battery makers face a new shortage of a crucial mineral: graphite

    Bioplastics Global Market Report 2022

    LOFT Social Groups are open groups that welcome everyone ages 18 and over. Groups are led by members of the LGBTQ+ and allied communities.

    Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

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  • Monday, May 13, 2024 at 07:00 PM
    VIRTUAL

    (V): LGBTQ+ People of Color Peer Support Group

    The LOFT's LGBTQ+ People of Color Peer Support Group is an open discussion group for LGBTQ+ People of Color including any/all peoples of African, Latino/Hispanic, Native American, Asian, or Pacific Island descent.

    WHEN: The 2nd and 4th Mondays of the month from 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM

    WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

    CONTACT: [email protected] or call The LOFT's helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 with any questions!

    LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic, drop-in groups. Groups are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
    Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

    View all groups on our calendar!

     

  • Monday, May 13, 2024 at 07:00 PM
    The LOFT LGBTQ+ Community Center in White Plains, NY

    (IP): PFLAG Westchester


    PFLAG is a group for parents, friends, family members, and LGBTQ+ people with or without their families.

    WHEN: The 2nd Monday of the month from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM

    WHERE: The LOFT: 252 Bryant Avenue, White Plains, NY 10605

    CONTACT: [email protected] for any inquiries

    Nos place anunciar la próxima reunión de Latino PFLAG Westchester. Las reuniones son en inglés y en español. Todos son bienvenidos, incluyendo padres, amigos, familiares y personas gays, lesbianas, bisexuales y transgéneras con o sin sus familias!

    For more information visit www.pflagwestchester.org

    LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic drop-in groups. They are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
    There is no fee to attend discussion groups but a $5 donation is suggested, more if you can, less if you can’t.  Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.