LOFT Calendar

Monday, May 13, 2024 at 07:00 PM

The LOFT LGBTQ+ Community Center

(IP): Rainbow Squad

This group is run by Center Lane:

Rainbow Squad is an LGBTQ+ friendly youth group for grades 3-6 that creates a safe space for kids ready to explore LGBTQ+ concepts and make friends!

Together we learn about self-acceptance, healthy boundaries, LGBTQ+ history and culture, and explore gender roles and identities supported by caring, trained adults. Groups are run by Center Lane’s facilitators committed to serving LGBTQ+ youth through fun, interactive, and educational programming. Participants will get to talk with peers and staff about issues that are important to them. Peer support and interaction are key to a young person’s development and especially crucial for LGBTQ+ youth who, despite the efforts of family and school staff, may still feel misunderstood or isolated at home, at school, and within their communities.

WHEN: The 2nd Monday of the month from 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM

Meetings occur in tandem with PFLAG meetings (which parents are encouraged to join).

WHERE: The LOFT LGBTQ+ Community Center

CONTACT: [email protected] or call The LOFT's helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 with any questions!

Learn more about our partner WJCS CenterLane

Groups are led by members of the LGBTQ+ and allied communities.

Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

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Tuesday, May 14, 2024 at 07:00 PM

The LOFT in White Plains, NY

(IP): Al-Anon (AAC)

WHEN: Meets weekly on Tuesdays from 7:00 PM - 8:00 PM

WHERE: The LOFT LGBTQ+ Community Center

CONTACT: [email protected] with any questions!

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Tuesday, May 14, 2024 at 07:15 PM

Jacob Burns Film Center in Pleasantville, NY

OUT at the Movies: I Saw The TV Glow Q&A
SPECIAL EVENT

- I Saw the TV Glow -

Screening + Q&A

The LOFT is proud to announce a special screening of I Saw the TV Glow presented in partnership with the Jacob Burns Film Center. This advance screening will be followed by a Q&A with director Jane Schoenbrun and actor Brigette Lundy-Paine.

"In capturing the trans experience with language that only cinema can convey, Schoenbrun has crafted one of the most original, evocative, adventurous films of this decade." – The Film Stage

WHEN: Tuesday, May 14th, at 7:15 PM

WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center: 364 Manville Rd, Pleasantville, NY 10570

ABOUT: Teenager Owen is just trying to make it through life in the suburbs when his classmate introduces him to a mysterious late-night TV show — a vision of a supernatural world beneath their own. In the pale glow of the television, Owen’s view of reality begins to crack. 2024. 100 m. Jane Schoenbrun. A24. Rated PG-13.

Q&A:
- Jane Schoenbrun is a non-binary filmmaker and writer dedicated to making and supporting personal, queer cinema. Their work includes I Saw the TV Glow, We're All Going to the World's Fair, A Self-Induced Hallucination, and the punk rock variety TV show The Eyeslicer.
- Brigette Lundy-Paine is an American actor best known for playing teenage heartthrob Casey Gardner in the Netflix original series Atypical. In 2019. Brigette played Megyn Kelly’s frightened assistant in Bombshell (Jay Roach) and in 2020 played Billi Logan, Ted's Kid, in the third installment of the Bill & Ted trilogy, Bill & Ted Face The Music.
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Tuesday, May 14, 2024 at 07:30 PM

VIRTUAL

(V): Men's Peer Support Group

The Men's Peer Support Group is an open-topic group run by a trained peer facilitator for men. For ages 18+, who identify as gay, bisexual, pansexual, or are questioning their sexuality.

WHEN: Tuesday evenings from 7:30 PM - 9:00 PM

WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

CONTACT: [email protected] or call The LOFT's Helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 if you have any questions about the group!

LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic, drop-in groups. They are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
There is no fee to attend discussion groups but a $5 donation is suggested, more if you can, less if you can’t. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

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Wednesday, May 15, 2024 at 08:00 AM

VIRTUAL

(V): Qigong

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We will learn a simple 9-form practice designed to gather, purify, and transform our internal energy (qi). In addition to learning the form, we will discuss basic concepts of qigong and delve into some principles of qigong movement. These practices can be done standing, seated, or lying down. No prior experience or props are needed and all skill levels will find something new in this practice. The complimentary course is oriented to those of the LGBTQ+ community and designed with folx of that identity in mind. Particular focus will be brought to LGBTQ+ experience and the possibilities for qigong to provide a platform for acceptance, healing, and growth.

Qigong is a very accessible, no sweat workout but it is still a physical activity. Those who RSVP will be asked to complete a waiver confirming that they feel able to participate.

WHEN: Wednesday mornings from 8:00 AM - 8:45 AM with an optional 15-minute debrief and discussion

WHERE: Virtual Meeting - register below to receive Zoom link

WHO: LGBTQ+ community members who are aged 18+

Please complete required waiver here

Teacher Bio: B. Leavitt ("believe it!") is an evolving gender fluid person who is a lawyer, parent and qigong teacher/practitioner. They have a 200-hour teaching certification from the Institute of Integral Qigong and Tai Chi. Qigong ("chee-gung") has been a vital part of B's journey and they view the practice as having profound potential for providing TGNCNB folx a safe and powerful pathway to ease and comfort in their bodies. Focusing less on the outer appearance of qigong forms and more on the inner experience of movement, B creates a fun, open and healing practice. Following this qigong series for the TGNCNB communities, B. plans to offer a series for the LGBTQ+ communities to participate in. Dates of that series are to be determined.

A donation is accepted for our Qigong teacher for those who are able, recommended at $10 via Venmo or in-person.

LOFT Social Groups are open groups that welcome everyone ages 18 and over. Groups are led by members of the LGBTQ+ and allied communities.

Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

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Wednesday, May 15, 2024 at 06:30 PM

The LOFT LGBTQ+ Community Center in White Plains, NY

(IP): Knitting Circle
The LGBTQ+ Knitting Circle is open to all experience levels. Beginners welcome! Some materials are provided, but we encourage you to bring your own.

WHEN: 1st and 3rd Wednesdays of the month from 6:30 PM - 8:00 PM

WHERE: The LOFT LGBTQ+ Community Center

CONTACT: [email protected] with any questions!

Suggested Materials:
- Size 8 straight, bamboo needles
- Yarn, look for something that's DK, worsted, or aran weight (may also be listed as weight 3 or 4 or as light or medium weight)
- A bag to hold your supplies
Recommendations:
- Please avoid using plastic or metal needles if you are a beginner, as these are more difficult to work with.
- Bamboo needles are very affordable and widely available.
- We recommend any natural fiber (cotton, wool, etc.) or a blend of natural fibers. It doesn't have to be expensive, but please avoid 100% acrylic yarn as this is difficult to work with, especially as a beginner.
LOFT Social Groups are open groups that welcome everyone ages 18 and over. Groups are led by members of the LGBTQ+ and allied communities.

Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

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Wednesday, May 15, 2024 at 07:30 PM

VIRTUAL

(V): 20-Somethings Peer Support Group

LGBTQ+ 20-Somethings is a LOFT Peer Support Group for individuals who identify under the queer umbrella and are aged 20-29. Our discussions consist of topics brought by group attendees that night. Folx are encouraged to seek out new friendships, make connections, establish local LGBTQ+ affirming spots to meet up, share TV shows, movies, and book recommendations, or just kick back and listen to what like-minded people have to say!

WHEN: This group meets virtually on the 1st & 3rd Wednesdays of the month from 7:30 PM - 9:00 PM

WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

CONTACT: [email protected] or (914)-948-2932 extension 13

LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic, drop-in groups. Groups are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't.

Wednesday, May 15, 2024 at 07:30 PM

VIRTUAL

(V): Writers Workshop

Have you ever thought about writing creatively, and would like feedback on your creative project? Do you have a novel, short story, poem, or play inside of you that you've been developing? Come and join our workshop and receive the support and feedback that can help you get to that next level with your creative project!

CALLING ALL LGBTQ+ WRITERS!

WHEN: The 3rd Wednesday of the month from 7:30 PM - 9:00 PM

WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

CONTACT: [email protected] or call The LOFT's helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 with any questions!

Check out our new RESOURCES page listed with opportunities to publish your work, click here!

HOW IT WORKS:

The Writers Workshop has become a VIRTUAL PROGRAM (with some selected times in the year for in-person gatherings).
Workshops are held every 3rd Wednesday of each month from 7:30-9:00 PM Eastern Standard Time. (Please note there are exceptions.)
If you are looking to have your work reviewed, you need to submit your work by no later than the 2nd Wednesday and participate in the critique process. (For new submissions please email [email protected] no later than 6:00 PM ET to receive the link to submit before midnight)
Submitting on the 2nd Wednesday of the month gives everyone a week to read all the submissions and produce critiques for everyone's work. Once you submit your work, you too will receive access to the submissions where you will also need to prepare a brief critique on every piece of work submitted. (You'll also receive a guide for writing critiques--it's really easy and a quick read). We have also recently added an "early bird submission" for those writers who want to submit longer than 6 pages. It's due on the 1st Wednesday of the month, giving readers two weeks to review their work.
That 3rd Wednesday we will all meet and collectively review everyone's submission, writer by a writer. Everyone will have a chance to weigh in and offer their assessment in a friendly and constructive atmosphere. All writers who submit work for review are required to also attend, participate, and produce critiques for all other submissions to receive their critiques and feedback.

WHAT CAN YOU SUBMIT?

The Writers Workshop accepts most creative projects including but not limited to fiction novels, non-fiction, memoirs, essays, short stories, poetry, comic strips, screenplays, etc... The most common work that has been submitted by writers is fiction projects (novels and short stories) and poetry. While not a requirement, we do encourage submissions to contain LGBTQ+ themes. One of the great benefits of LGBTQ+ writing spaces is receiving feedback from writers who are centered on an LGBTQ+ identity and can offer insight and perspective that can enhance the quality of your project. Please note the submission length will vary from month to month.

It's my first time and I'm ready to submit my work...WHAT DO I DO?

First, double-check your submission:

Is your name somewhere on the manuscript?
Does it correspond to the submission standards: length, font size, double-space, and standard margins? Please do not try to manipulate your document to squeeze in extra content. This is highly inconsiderate towards your fellow writers. You are asking them to spend more time and resources on your work than on theirs. If your work does not follow the guidelines, you may be at risk of having it sent back to you and asked to have it conform to the standards laid out (you will still have to meet the established timelines for submission). Don't risk it, follow the guidelines.
Once you've ensured that your work meets the submission standards e-mail [email protected] and let him know you're ready to submit your work. He will then supply you with a link to access the shared folder where writers upload their work. You will only need to do this one time, afterward, you should have access to the shared folder.

Submission Confirmation

On the second Thursday, the day after submissions are due, the facilitator will send all writers who submitted a confirmation that details all the work that each writer is responsible for reading and reviewing for the workshop.
Reviews are oral and given at the workshop. No need to write them out, unless you would like.
Our submissions also operate on a sliding scale. The way the sliding scale works is everyone submits a max of 1650 words. If more than 5 people have submitted by the end of the 2nd Wednesday of the month (submission deadline) there will be no increases in submission length. If 4 people or fewer submit, writers will be given a 24-hour extension to add additional content based on the number of submissions. The facilitator will determine the new amount of content that can be added and will share it in the confirmation process. It's completely optional, the writer can leave their submission as is, or opt to add additional content within that new 24-hour window. Specific Instructions will be provided for that particular workshop by the facilitator.

Workshop Participation

Attendance & participation is mandatory if you have submitted work for review. You are also expected to offer commentary and critique that demonstrates you have read the material of others and have given it some thought and consideration.
Workshop Critiques: No need to write a dissertation or give a 20-minute explanation. Rather, try to distill at least three key observations on what was strongest about the piece, the weakest, and something else that caught your attention. That's the sweet spot as everyone else will offer their insight to complete the bigger picture analysis.
Please remember all of this relies on everyone showing up and doing their part. Other writers are giving up their time and resources to help your craft grow--please do the same and in the same amount asked.

Submission Standards

**IMPORTANT: PLEASE read the submission guidelines carefully. Failure to comply with the length and standards can result in a return of your submission.**

Sliding Scale Submission Length: 1,650 Words *

PLEASE Double Space and use 12 pt. font

(Does not include a brief paragraph that summarizes/explains work-200 word limit)

* The way the sliding scale works is everyone submits a max of 1650 words. If more than 5 people have submitted by the end of the 2nd Wednesday of the month (submission deadline) there will be no increases in submission length. If 4 people or fewer submit, writers will be given a 24-hour extension to add additional content based on the number of submissions. It's completely optional, the writer can leave their submission as is, or opt to add additional content within that new 24-hour window. Specific Instructions will be provided for that particular workshop by the facilitator.

2024 Workshop Schedule

Workshop Month	Submission Due Date second Wednesday/month:	Workshop (7:30 pm-9:00 pm) EST-3rd Wednesday/month:
December 2023	December 13th	December 20th
January 2024	January 10th	January 17th
February 2024	February 14th	February 21st
March 2024	March 13th	March 20th

LOFT Social Groups are open groups that welcome everyone ages 18 and over. Groups are led by members of the LGBTQ+ and allied communities.
Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

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Thursday, May 16, 2024 at 05:30 PM

VIRTUAL

(V): C.A.L.M - Centered at LOFT Meditation

Discover tranquility at C.A.L.M. - Centered at LOFT Meditation, a welcoming group within The LOFT community. Step into a space where individuals from all walks of life can come together to unwind and recenter their minds.

Immerse yourself in a diverse range of soothing meditations, from calming breath exercises to guided sessions, mindfulness practices, and enchanting mantras. C.A.L.M. offers a unique blend of techniques designed to cater to various preferences, ensuring that everyone finds their path to inner peace.

This inter-generational program is part of Silver Connections, The LOFT's initiative for LGBTQ+ community members aged 55 and above. However, this inclusive meditation experience is open to individuals of all ages, 18 and older. Join us as we create a harmonious space to foster well-being and connection within our vibrant community.

WHEN: Every Thursday evening from 5:30 PM - 6:30 PM

WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

CONTACT: Call The LOFT's Helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 if you have any questions about the group!

The LOFT and Queery volunteer James Young facilitates this group. To learn more about James and Queery, click here.

LOFT Social Groups are open groups that welcome everyone ages 18 and over. Groups are led by members of the LGBTQ+ and allied communities.
Donations are welcome. Suggested donation is $5; more if you can, less if you can't. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

View all groups on our calendar!
Thursday, May 16, 2024 at 07:30 PM

VIRTUAL

(V): Mental Health Peer Support Group

The LGBTQ+ Mental Health Peer Support Group is for members of the LGBTQ+ community, ages 18 and over, who are living with a mental health condition, either diagnosed or undiagnosed.

WHEN: The 1st and 3rd Thursday of each month from 7:30 PM - 9:00 PM

WHERE: Virtual meeting - please register below to access the Zoom link

CONTACT: Email [email protected] or call The LOFT's Helpline at (914) 948-2932 x13 if you have any questions about the group!

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LOFT Peer Support Groups are open-topic drop-in groups. They are led by facilitators who identify as peers with those in attendance.
There is no fee to attend discussion groups but a $5 donation is suggested, more if you can, less if you can’t. Fees related to activities are the responsibility of participants.

View all groups on our calendar!